5 Things That Surprised Me During Pregnancy

Pregnancy is so different for every person. I’d even go so far as to say each pregnancy can be vastly different for the same person. These are 5 things that surprised me during pregnancy. Honestly, there are probably more than 5 things, but well…refer to point #4.

5 Things That Surprised Me During Pregnancy

Fatigue

Yeah yeah, I know what you’re thinking. Of course, you experience fatigue during pregnancy. I know that. I KNEW that. What I didn’t know was what the fatigue would be like. I thought I was just being lazy. However, after having gone through pregnancy twice now I’ve come to realise that really isn’t the case at all. Fatigue during pregnancy is not something that can be fought off or just overcome. Your body is literally putting all of its energy into growing your little baby.

I also found that the fatigue changed during the course of the pregnancy. At the beginning, the first trimester, the fatigue I experienced left me completely drained. I could sleep 12 hours and still wake up exhausted. It’s kind of the same during the third trimester but from my experience, it’s more physical. It was no longer just about growing the baby but also because my body was tired. Tired of pumping extra fluid around, tired of disrupted sleep, and tired of lugging around x amount of extra kgs.

My husband was wonderful at reminding me what my body was trying to accomplish. I often got down in the dumps and put so much pressure on myself to just push past the fatigue. My husband was a wonderful encouragement in reminding me to rest and let my body do what it needed.

Pregnancy fatigue is not a case of mind over matter.

Water Works

Again, this might seem a bit cliche but I had no idea exactly how crazy the constant toilet trips and general pressure would be.

Before I was pregnant I had heard plenty about how pregnant women need to pee a lot more than usual. What I didn’t know is that you can have visited the bathroom and just sat back down when all of a sudden you need to go again. Like you NEED to go. Also, you can go from not needing to go at all to BUSTING if that wee babe decides to have a little dance party.

The all time winner for the unexpected though has to be those times where you really need to go but you’re too terrified to stand up for fearing of losing control.

If you’ve been pregnant before you probably get what I’m saying, right?

Chronic Pain

I knew about morning sickness and that pregnancy could make you uncomfortable. What I didn’t know about was chronic pain.

During my first pregnancy, I experienced a lot of ligament pain. There were a few days where I was pretty much immobile.

Flash forward to my second pregnancy and everything was amped up a few notches.

Fun fact: the hormone relaxin which relaxes all your ligaments in preparation for labour also amps up each subsequent pregnancy.

My kids are 18 months apart, so my body had awesome muscle memory. My ligaments started loosening up very early along. I also ended up injuring my tailbone during my second trimester. The combination of the two meant for at least 5 months of chronic pain.

It was debilitating. It was one of the most difficult things I’ve been through. There were some nights where I cried as I limped to the bathroom. There were also some nights where I had to wake my husband up so that he could help get me up and get me to where I needed to go.

Dealing with chronic pain was humbling, to say the least. It also gave me a whole new appreciation for those who deal with it without an end in sight. I at least knew that it would be over once my baby arrived.

Baby Brain

FOR REAL! I thought this was a myth. I really did. Nooooooooooooooo. Baby brain is for real! It started during my first pregnancy. I kept accidentally leaving the oven on after I had finished cooking dinner. Honestly…it has only gotten worse as time has progressed. It can be super frustrating but it is manageable. I just write everything down now. I’m not kidding…ev-er-y-thing.

This journal is one of my favourite ‘mama items’ because it has allowed me to capture special memories almost effortlessly. There are so many little things that your children do that are easily forgotten if not recorded in some way. πŸ™‚

I Love/Hate Pregnancy

It really doesn’t make all that much sense that you can love something when it causes so much pain and discomfort. In fact, I would even say that out of my two pregnancies, my second was the one I enjoyed the most, despite the fact that it was filled with the most discomfort. It may have had something to do with me being more relaxed the second time around. I knew what to expect.

It’sΒ because of how amazing it is to be growing a human being, that I love being pregnant. I also love it because it is the only time that my babies were mine alone. No one else got to feel them moving inside the same way that I did. No one else got to feel those little hiccups, which in my case where at least twice a day. I used to love when I woke in the night and felt my babies stretching their limbs. There is nothing that compares to it.

Somehow, despite all the pain and discomfort, those precious moments make up for it. I’m always grateful to reach the end of my pregnancy, but I also miss it.

There are so many surprises that we are met with during those months of change. Everyone’s experience is so different. Let me know in the comments what things surprised you during pregnancy?

Until next time!

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5 Things That Surprised Me About Pregnancy

Hi! I'm Christine...a stay-at-home mum to two tiny humans. My constant focus is having my home run as smoothly as possible. Keeping two kids alive, and maintaining my sanity is also a priority. Most Saturday nights, you can find me hunkered down watching Grey's Anatomy, and hopefully nibbling on some chocolate. :)

  • Whitney Scott

    I think I still may have baby brain 6 years later! Keeping a journal and calendar has helped tremendously! Great post!

    • Christine Keys

      It’s a life sentence I think! Ha!

  • Brittany Daoud

    So interesting how our body goes through these little changes during pregnancy!

    • Christine Keys

      It’s amazing! πŸ™‚

  • Bailey

    Wow! It’s amazing how much the body does.

    • Christine Keys

      Absolutely!

  • Michelle Stanley

    The fatigue and morning sickness really did me in! I was in for a big surprise when I had a girl and got sick for 3+ months 😬

    • Michelle Stanley

      Btw, love the look of your blog πŸ™‚ it’s so pretty and feminine 🌸

    • Christine Keys

      Oh man! I was sick until about 16 weeks but it wasn’t terrible. The fatigue was what killed me! Oh, and thank you, my husband did most of the work on it, with my supervision of course, ha! πŸ˜›

  • Mamabops

    I can totally relate to the chronic pain. My second pregnancy has been much more difficult on my body. My first pregnancy was super easy, so this came as a shock!

    • Christine Keys

      Oh man! I’m sorry mama. I hope you get some relief. x

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